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The Feelings Series: Simple Exercises

No one teaches us how to be with feelings. At the moment you maybe finding yourself very discombobulated, overwhelmed, grieving and distraught. This series is aimed at guiding you through

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Ventral Vibes Project

Ventral Vibes Project Due to the enormous challenges and changes we are currently facing on a daily basis, our nervous system is overwhelmed, as we move from brain automation of

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The ‘F’ Word

Feelings! We don’t like to think about them, feel them, acknowledge them, and yet they remain, and at times completely take over our experience of ourself. Some people go so

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Inner Child Meditation by Brenda Sutherland

The listener is guided to meet their inner child in this creative visualisation. They are guided to become aware of their inner child, whilst developing a dialogue with them, discovering

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Soul meditation by Brenda Sutherland

This guided creative visualisation guides the listener to meet their soul in nature. The soul gives them advice, and there is an invite to ask one’s souls questions. Then, the

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Frozen: Unfreeze Each Other

“I can only be your story about me!” One thing I have learned, as a therapist over 30 years, is that people change, but often our stories about them don’t.

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Who Owns the Problem?

  Who Owns the Problem? Understanding who owns the problem is key in choosing how we address issues, concerns and conflicts arising. There are four basic areas of problem ownership:

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Bring Back the Spark Challenge

Every Behaviour is Trying to Get a Need Met You may know that I counsel couples, having trained with Dr Stan Tatkin, Dr Tammy Nelson, Dr Emily Nagoski, and been

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I Am So Sorry

Recently I experienced a deep hurt and betrayal, something I had not experienced for a very long time. What was surprising amongst the directly experiencing the feelings of rage, hatred,