Category: News

  • Rethinking Attachment

    Rethinking Attachment

    We are wired to our environment

    Modern attachment theory points to attachment towards a primary caregiver but what if we are missing a massive attachment piece? What if we contemplated a more indigenous perspective of attachment? What if we were actually hardwired to our natural environment? The weather, seasons and the food that is produced throughout those times of the year from the earth? Water and the waterways? The elements? Culture, language, rituals?

    What if our perception of attachment has become one of reduction and we are bodies are really hardwired to the environment and we need to develop a more expansive conceptualisation of secure attachment that connects us to something larger than yourself, and a parent?

    Who feeds us, shelters us, breathes us? Mother Earth, Life itself.

    Who holds both our parents and ourself?

    Rethinking attachment brings us back to being soothed, nourished and regulated by nature and water. Both Florence Williams (Nature Fix) and Wallace Nichols (Blue Mind) highlight in great scientific detail how we are hardwired to nature and the benefits of connecting to water and natural surroundings. Therefore when addressing attachment isn’t essential to then address our lack of connection, or deeper connection to nature and how we are moved, breathed and continually supported by the environment?

    What changes in our body, in our consciousness, when we contemplate this level of expansive attachment?

  • Humanising The Digital Age

    Humanising The Digital Age

    Ukraine Russian war had broken out and we felt helpless to make a difference, yet in this digital age we wanted to ensure that we could at least help. Humanising the digital age for TAG means making uncomfortable connections, telling hard stories and transforming lives whether it be through the programs we teach, our free podcasts, our articles, counselling, couple or individual, our work in community groups or who we work with. We are curious about others and their stories in the hope that we can step back from our screens and experience the human behind it. We want to humanise the digital age!

    This is a story of the human spirit, courage, survival and generosity of spirit.

    Our homepage art was designed by Oleksii Skrypnyk (Alex) is a Ukrainian designer who designed this in the midst of war in Kyiv with intermittent electricity in the middle of winter, rationed water, continual bombings, family members becoming refugees and limited supplies. He would have to work on the piece when electricity was available, continually created updates whilst juggling lack of supplies, devilries cut whilst generously offering on the ground insights so that we had some glimpse aside from the media of what was happening. Always in good cheer!

    Oleskii’s Story told by him:

    “Situation with electricity is still the same, so my ‘business hours’ are literally ‘hours when I have electricity’, he-he 🙂

    On top of that we have quite massive snowfalls here, especially considering that it’s a mid of November, not even winter. And usually I love snow and cold weather, but I don’t have heating without electricity, and I have some serious frights regarding this. Last few winters were not too cold, but sometimes it can be like -15 and even -20 (rarely) so without the heating situation will be really hard. On top of that authorities say that people should move to other countries at least for the winter months, and that’s a nice idea, but due to war they banned the right to cross the border for all the males from 18 to 60 y.o. And this looks like they are kidding… But I hope that situation will be solved somehow 🙂”

    After A Time

    “Yeah, I’m ok. More air defense systems were delivered and the russia already used majority of their missiles and long range drones, so we have something happening like once per 1-2 weeks or something. It’s terrible of course, but compared to what we had just 5 months ago this looks optimistic. However sometimes tragedies happen, for example this one https://www.pravda.com.ua/eng/news/2023/04/28/7399781/ A Russian missile has hit a residential building in Uman, Cherkasy Oblast, killing seven people, including a child, and injuring 17 more.

    That happened in a small town in the central part of the country. That town is mainly known because of the large national park and because some prayers from Israel are getting there each year as there is a grave of their saint (not sure, however that’s religion-related tourism). There are no miltary objects or something, so that was a pure act of terror against civilians 😞

    But in Kyiv, where I live, it’s more or less fine. Weather became better, flowers and tress are in bloom, sights becoeing more pleasant so these things are helping to distract attention from the war. Plus we have a land plot with a garden near Kyiv, I’m trying to make some works and make it very cosy before my mom will return back, she is now a refugee and I would like to make some nice things for her when she will come back 🙂”

    LATER

    “Yeah, my mom is back, now trying to find out what’s going on and what to do when air strike alerts is on. But in general she is ok.

    Situation here is same as earlier, but on top of this we have more worries russians will make explosion at the nuclear power plant, and I believe these rumors can be realistic, so I’m trying to be ready for this scenario”

    If you would like to meet Alex and enjoy his work go to:  https://www.instagram.com/alex_2loud/ or https://www.upwork.com/freelancers/~0144d54999332fc25b

  • Create Your Day

    Create Your Day

    Creating Your Day the moment you wake up changes neurological pathways
    You are that powerful!
    Create Your Day is a powerful technique that not only changes the brain but changes your experience of the world around you daily and what you attract.
    In an environment where many of us are trying to regain hope, humanise the digital age and stay connected with the true nature of oneself and to each other, “Creating Your Day” gives you hope brings about changes. It creates bigger changes the more you practice the technique.

    Have you noticed that from the moment you wake up your brain searches for old memories, the list of what you have to do, how you feel about yourself, family, your work situation; in other words old neurological pathways. What if the moment you woke you changed what your brain thought? How do you think your day would be if you changed your thoughts the moment you woke?

    How to Create Your Day

    The moment you wake up take a moment to connect to what you really want from your day. What would make you happy having experienced at the end of the day looking back? Feel into how that would be if you experienced this. Then create announce to the day: “Today I will experience…..(add your order here).” ie ‘Today I will be meet new people”, “Today I will experience abundance like I have never known it, and all along the way I will be delighted by the day”.

    Remember to only create what you are prepared to live!


    This is not about changing habits as such rather it is about honouring that life says “YES” to our intentions from the moment you wake up, so let’s change our thoughts then get on with living.

    “Today I will experience…….”