
The ‘F’ Word
Feelings! We don’t like to think about them, feel them, acknowledge them, and yet they remain, and at times completely take over our experience of ourself. Some people go so

Feelings! We don’t like to think about them, feel them, acknowledge them, and yet they remain, and at times completely take over our experience of ourself. Some people go so

The listener is guided to meet their inner child in this creative visualisation. They are guided to become aware of their inner child, whilst developing a dialogue with them, discovering

This guided creative visualisation guides the listener to meet their soul in nature. The soul gives them advice, and there is an invite to ask one’s souls questions. Then, the

After having thirty-one sessions this week with clients where the singular focus was COVID-19 and how to cope, I decided to consolidate my advice and make a list that I

Over the last months we have seen and for many experienced devastation to homes, the loss of loved ones, wildlife, habitats and beloved communities. Such deep and overwhelming loss is

“I can only be your story about me!” One thing I have learned, as a therapist over 30 years, is that people change, but often our stories about them don’t.

Who Owns the Problem? Understanding who owns the problem is key in choosing how we address issues, concerns and conflicts arising. There are four basic areas of problem ownership:

Well here we are now We are all together All gathered here Like birds of a feather We sit in a circle and call it sacred Where we wait

Each member of the family Each part of the puzzle All look and seem so different, so separate There is an order to the chaos. There is a reason

Many of the problems we are experiencing in life and in our relationships are due to the fact that we carry the burden that one or more of our ancestors were unable to resolve at the time. Looking once again at what happened to those ancestors and giving now what could not be given then, can lead to resolution and lifting of the old burden. To bring about healing we use our natural ability to resonate with the feelings of others to “bring back“ momentarily those distressed or excluded ancestors, allowing them to “relive” and “resolve” their painful episodes, undoing the present family member’s entanglement with that ancestor.

ancestors were unable to resolve at the time. Looking once again at what happened to those ancestors and giving now what could not be given then, can lead to resolution and lifting of the old burden. To bring about healing we use our natural ability to resonate with the feelings of others to “bring back“ momentarily those distressed or excluded ancestors, allowing them to “relive” and “resolve” their painful episodes, undoing the present family member’s entanglement with that ancestor.

LONGING What is your heart’s deepest longing? Over the last couple of years many of us have longed to connect with friends, to have the freedom to visit them, to