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  • Nature Fix: More than a Walk in the Park

    Nature Fix: More than a Walk in the Park

    “Body and Soil are one” an ancient Korean proverb, “shin to bul ee”.

    Three years of solid working, counselling to support those in lockdowns, teaching mostly on a screen, limited travel and opportunities to create novelty, a deeper calling got hold of me. Restlessness grew louder, impatience filled the air, grumpy, tired and groundhog mental fatigue seemed the flavour of my weeks. The over domestication of myself was beginning to own me, in a way that became addictive.

    The gypsy I befriended in myself in my teens climbing NZ mountains for days only equiped with a pack on my back, camping in hay sheds, reclaimed as the wild woman in my twenties, needed to be listened deeply to. I loaded the car, threw a mattress in the back, along with my trusty hiking boots, mozzie repellent, a few good books gifted by friends, some homemade dried fruit and coffee I had squirreled away for just this occasion and hit the road. Now Australian roads have been battered of late by floods, so hitting the road was literal, over and over again!

    I needed wide open spaces, the sound of nature, sunsets and sunrises, nature based exercise, swimming in waterfalls, sun and the smell of the earth. The urgency in my longing brought back memories of emerging out of four patrolled walls of quarantine a number of years ago, I couldn’t sleep inside for many nights, I needed nature to soothe my soul and the sorrow from how were we treating each other.

    “Nature will not be admired by proxy” ― Winston Churchill 

    Free camping it was, thanks to Wikicamps (yes an app), I was committed to digital detoxing, as much as possible when you run your own business.

    As the kilometres lengthened stress, low level anxiety, frustration, grumpiness, fatigue all began to drop away. The little things started to draw my attention more and more, I became curious. The movement of soft grasses in the wind, the exquisite colours of contrasting landscapes, a cricket hanging out with me as I looked for the night’s camp, the sound of the wind in the trees, an echidna blowing bubbles out of its snout whilst playing hide and seek with me, the differences in birds calls, the moment bees have woken, or was that me awakening to the bees sound? The big little things called me more and my hard edges softened as I breathed out a little more everyday.

    In an attention economy you would be right to feel as though your nervous system has been hijacked by constant endeavours to pursue personal and professional goals, making money, an idea of who you should be, physical fitness, maintaining healthy relationships, the list goes on. Mental fatigue, stress, anxiety, depression, lack of motivation and creativity, numerous health conditions are only some of the symptoms of a disconnect from our true nature but is this disconnect a deeper calling?

    We have never in any other time in history been so disconnected from nature, the soil, the birds, green and blue spaces. Never in history have we been holed up in houses in the way we have in the last years and the consequences are showing.

    Studies show that we need at least 5 hours per month “in nature to starve off depression, and elevate mood. Nature has a dose-response relationship; the more time spent in nature the better you feel.”* Ten hours changes our body brain lowering blood pressure, cortisol and alleviating depression, mental fatigue, anxiety, lowering symptoms of inattention and hyperactivity, making us more healthier, more empathetic, divergently creative, energetic, enabling us to engage in the world around us.  To calculate that, it is 30 minutes five days a week, or as Liisa Trycäinen says “two to three days per month outside the city would bring the same effect.” Nature turns us on, turns down the stress hormones and brings us home into ourself in way nothing else can.

    With so many adults currently being diagnosed with ADHD, is forest medicine the answer? Some of the benefits of nature is boosting executive brain function; recharging the right prefrontal cortex, that part in the brain for organising, judging and task-focusing. We cannot bounce off walls if walls are taken away.

    Green or blue scapes are our ultimate medicine. Big corporations in Japan, Korea, Scotland, Finland all recognise the increased health benefits to the overall well-being of their workers by being in nature. Nature deficient disorder symptoms include increased obesity, lower attention span, vitamin D deficiency, lower capacity to cope with stress, reduced performance, and a lower sense of wellbeing, among a few.

    Therefore for this holiday season plan to get your nature fix, the best medicine.

     “Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better”― Albert Einstein 

    Tips for your Nature Fix:

    • Take a trip to the sea, a national park, green or blue nature spaces
    • Walk in nature, whether it is a park, by the sea as much away from artificial sounds as possible, for over 30 minutes a day

    “In every walk with nature, one receives far more than he seeks.”– John Muir

    • Simply lie on the grass, on the earth, on the sand at the beach and let yourself come into resonance with nature

    “Time spent amongst trees is never wasted time” ― Katrina Mayer

    • Cultivate curiosity towards nature, this may start by looking at a tree for an extended period of time. Curiosity invites awe which changes the brain and nervous system.
    • Leave your phone, or any mobile device at home and begin to digitally detox by simply being with nature for extended periods of time.
    • Practice ‘Dadirri’, aboriginal for deep listening.

    “In the presence of nature, a wild delight runs through the man, in spite of real sorrows. Nature says, — he is my creature, and maugre all his impertinent griefs, he shall be glad with me” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson

    • Without taking anything from national parks, find something that represents you in nature (a tree, moss, a rock, a brightly coloured leaf). Contemplate this aspect of nature. What is it about this part of nature that parallels where you are at the moment in your life? Write about it. What happens when you allow the essence of this in deeper, to tell its story of being?
    • Following on from this find something in nature, without removing it, that is needed to nourish you, this could simply be imagining it, or searching for something similar. Breathe it in, the energy of it, how does it touch you, move in you, soothe you? What changes when you take the essence of this out into the world with you?
    • Meditate in nature.
    • Exercise in nature; walk, yoga, tai chi, swim, kayak, sail, the list is endless and watch your energy levels change, your creativity and stress levels reduce.

    “There is a way that nature speaks, the land speaks. Most of the time we are simply not patient enough, not quiet enough to pay attention to the story.” ― Linda Hogan

     Let nature talk to you as you take time to let her slow you down, bring you back into resonance with life, your natural rhythms, lowering heart rate, stress levels and bringing you back into connection.

    “As Nisbet rather dejectedly concluded, “People may avoid nearby nature because a chronic disconnection from nature causes them to underestimate its hedonic benefits.” ― Florence Williams

    Bibliography

    https://youtu.be/tow2tR_ezL8

    Dr Miriam-Rose Ungunmerr collaborated with Producer and Director, Pip Gordon of The Gathering Tree with support from DLUX Media and Djilpin Arts in Katherine, with original music composed by Michael Kokinos, in producing a short teaser film about Dadirri – A Gift To The Nation. In Miriam’s language, ‘Dadirri’, is the practise of Deep Inner Listening and quiet still awareness, which connects us and nurtures spiritual well-being. The finalised film is still in production, with release expected early 2017. For more information contact thegatheringtree@outlook.com

    Williams, Florence, (2017) ‘The Nature Fix: Why Nature Makes Us Happier, Healthier and more Creative’. Norton & Company,

    Resources

    Can trees Heal TED Ideas https://ideas.ted.com/can-trees-heal-people/ 

    Green Gym  https://healingforest.org/2020/10/21/forest-bathing-secrets/ 

    https://www.parks.vic.gov.au/news/2021/10/04/04/35/connecting-to-the-medicine-of-the-forest

    Forest Medicine: Imagine a new medical science that could let you know how to be more active, more relaxed and healthier with reduced stress and reduced risk of lifestyle-related disease and cancer by visiting forests. This new medical science is called forest medicine. Forest medicine encompasses the effects of forest environments on human health and is a new interdisciplinary science, belonging to the categories of alternative medicine, environmental medicine and preventive medicine. This book presents up-to-date findings in forest medicine to show the beneficial effects of forest environments on human health.

    https://www.researchgate.net/publication/287188914_What_is_forest_medicine

  • Love Stories

    Love Stories

    Hearing a love story being told, ignites something deep in us. Hope, inspiration, faith, recognition, a deep rest, touching something deep within our soul. A deep recognition of one’s true being.

    “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives us courage.” Lao Tzu

    Love stories are to be shared as beacons to what is possible, honouring a longing to melt in love, to be seen in love, to matter, to be loved.

    A number of years ago I asked Dr Stan Tatkin (founder of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) and Tracey Bohlman-Tatkin, his life partner, to speak with us so our somatic selves could get a feeling of what a secure functioning couple felt like, as many of us have no reference point for this in our bodies. We have little modelling in our life of a healthy intimate relationship.

    The Global Glue Project records stories of secure functioning couples telling their story together of how they met, how they handle conflict, what they love about each other and their challenges throughout their history together.

    Love stories inspired Australian writer Trent Dalton who sat in a Brisbane mall collecting Love Stories from any person who was willing to share them, for the book of the same name.

    Songs, poems, books, art, masterpieces are all inspired by love.

    We all have a love story to tell.

    Therefore this space has been created, so we can all tell your love story, there is no ‘right’ love story, it doesn’t have to be big, dramatic or romantic, it is your story that matters and how it touched your heart.

    Your love story doesn’t not have to be about a person, it can be about a place, a pet, and passionate hobby, love has many faces. Who or what touched your heart?

    It is a story of the heart.

    What is your love story?

  • The Great Undoing: The Mechanics of a Belief and How to Change them

    The Great Undoing: The Mechanics of a Belief and How to Change them

    A Belief Becomes Its Own Ecosystem.
    Throughout our life we have certain experiences, good, bad, ugly and our parents had certain experiences, our country had certain historical experiences and when adopted beliefs that tried to protect us from reality. The problem is that perpetuate suffering if not questioned.

    For example, many years ago I had a young Muslim woman who joined an introduction I was taking on The Work of Byron Katie, and her belief she discovered when she asked herself, “what would someone believe in order to experience this” in relation to a certain feeling she was experiencing was “Life is Hard”. When she really enquired into the belief she realised her life, compared to her immigrant parents was really easy, fun and with many opportunities, but when she believed the thought she suffered and everything became difficult. Without the belief she was free to choose her own experience.

    Here is how a belief works:

    Whether conscious or unconscious we believe something to be true based on experience or we adopt beliefs from our parents.

    We gather EVIDENCE to prove it is correct, then the belief changes the way we FEEL, the way we REACT, our experience in our BODY,  whilst other THOUGHTS collect around it and we FILTER life, relationships, money, success and our own sense of sense through the EXPECTATIONS of this alive belief.

    As we gather evidence to prove the belief is correct is comes alive in us, and creates its own thought forms that are self perpetuating, which means when the opposite shows up the majority of the time we cannot see it or experience it as it is incongruent to the belief that is continuously gathering evidence to prove it is correct.

    Now this is a problem as it causes internal suffering and conflict as it argues with reality and our true nature. So what to do?

    The Great Undoing

    Over the years I have worked with many techniques and the one that really works to relieve suffering, whereby the belief when enquired into, let’s go of you, is The Work of Byron Katie: The Great Undoing.

    Time Magazine called it: “4 Questions to Inner Peace”

    Eckhart Tolle said: “Byron Katie’s Work is a great blessing for our planet. It acts like a razor-sharp sword that cuts through illusion and enables you to know for yourself the timeless essence of your being.” 

    Here is how it works:

    Start with something that stresses you. This could be an experience, something that someone does that annoys you or the like.

    1. Ask: What would someone believe in order to experience this?
    2. Write it Down as a short sentence
    3. Then ask from your head and answer from your heart: “Is it true?” Go deep within you and find if you can find the truth, not just your thinking.
    4. If it is a YES then ask: “Can I absolutely know this to be true?” in my heart of hearts. Then proceed to #5
    5. If it is a NO then ask: “How do I react, what happens to me when I think this thought?”
    6. Ask: “How do I treat myself, life, the other when I think this thought?”
    7. Ask: “Who would I be without this thought?” “How would I feel without this thought?” Really go inside and let the space without the thought come alive in you.
    8. Turn it around to opposite ie: To Reality (remember this is not about convincing yourself but meeting reality as it is)
    9. Turn it around to yourself ie: take the other out and add me (how do I treat myself in the same way I say the other is treating me?)
    10. Turn it around to me with the other ie: How do I treat the other in the same way I accuse the other of treating me?
    11. Where is each turnaround truer in your life? try and find as many examples as you can, so that your whole being gets to experience the reality of this.

    The Work of Byron Katie is an opportunity to return home to your true nature, love, an experience of peace and flow with life.

    If you would like to join us an enquire into your stressful thoughts as a group we welcome you. FOR MORE INFORMATION